How Virgo Handles Endings: It's Often About What Went Wrong...

Virgo breakups tend to be more analytical than overly emotional (on the surface). They process endings by understanding why things didn't work.

If they initiate, it's usually after extensive analysis and deciding the relationship is fundamentally flawed or impractical long-term. The breakup conversation might involve a detailed list of reasons (which can feel critical). They seek a clean, logical separation, often focusing on practicalities.

If you initiate, expect them to want a thorough explanation – they need to understand the logic. They might analyze past events, point out flaws (yours or theirs), or seem emotionally reserved while their mind races. They take perceived 'failure' hard due to perfectionism. While they might not have huge emotional outbursts, they can hold onto the 'analysis' of what went wrong for a long time, sometimes leading to self-criticism or critiquing the ex post-breakup. Moving on involves understanding and accepting the imperfections.

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