Breaking Up With Taurus: It Ain't Over 'Til It's OVER
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How Taurus Handles Endings: Slowly & Reluctantly ππΆββοΈ
Breakups with security-craving Taurus are rarely quick or easy. They resist change and hold on tight.
Scenarios:
- If They Initiate: It takes A LOT. They've likely been unhappy and mulling it over for ages. The decision, once made, is usually final but the process might still feel slow as they detach practically. Might try to remain friends (for stability?).
- If You Initiate: Prepare for resistance. They'll likely dig their heels in, question why endlessly, and try to maintain the status quo. It can feel like breaking up with a brick wall. They may hold onto hurt/resentment for a long time.
- The Slow Fade (If Unhappy): Sometimes, instead of a direct breakup, they might slowly withdraw affection and energy, hoping things fizzle or you end it.
Key Characteristics:
- Slowness: Detachment takes time. Decisions aren't impulsive.
- Resistance to Change: Letting go of the familiar is incredibly hard.
- Focus on Practicalities: Might worry about shared possessions, living situations.
- Deep Hurt/Resentment: If trust is broken, forgiveness is very difficult.
- Need for Closure (Eventually): But on their own terms and timeline.
Healing: Requires immense patience. Give them space to process, but be firm if the decision is final. Don't expect quick acceptance.
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