When Sagittarian Freedom Turns into Flakiness...

That adventurous, truth-telling Sag spirit is great, until it becomes irresponsible or hurtful.

Red Flags to Heed:

• Chronic Non-Committal Behavior: Consistently avoiding defining the relationship, making future plans, or taking responsibility. "Keeping options open" indefinitely.

• Reckless Bluntness / Lack of Empathy: Using "honesty" as an excuse to be cruel, careless, or dismissive of partner's feelings without remorse.

• Irresponsibility Disguised as Spontaneity: Constantly breaking plans, neglecting shared duties, or making impulsive decisions that negatively impact the partner/relationship under the guise of being "free-spirited."

• Intellectual Arrogance / Dogmatism: Believing their philosophy or way is the only way, dismissing partner's beliefs or refusing to learn/compromise.

• Constant Restlessness / Escapism: Always needing the next thing, unable to appreciate the present or build stability because they're perpetually chasing novelty or avoiding discomfort.

• Ignoring Practical Realities: Refusing to deal with finances, chores, or the mundane aspects of shared life because it's "boring."

Note: Healthy Sag balances freedom with consideration; unhealthy Sag uses freedom as an excuse for carelessness or avoidance.

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