When Cancer Care Turns Clingy or Controlling...

That nurturing Cancer energy is lovely, until it isn't. The shadow side can create emotionally draining red flags. Watch for patterns like emotional manipulation – using guilt trips, tears, or moods to control situations or get their way. Extreme clinginess or possessiveness stemming from deep insecurity, making it hard for partners to have space or separate identities, is another major flag. Beware of passive aggression – expressing displeasure indirectly through sulking, sarcasm, or the silent treatment instead of direct communication. An inability to respect boundaries, constantly overstepping or taking things personally when boundaries are asserted, is also problematic. Finally, a victim mentality, where they consistently blame others or circumstances for their unhappiness without taking personal responsibility, can be incredibly draining for a partner. Healthy Cancer nurtures; unhealthy Cancer smothers or manipulates.

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