Cancer Arguments: Addressing Things... Sideways? 🦀↔️

Direct confrontation isn't usually Cancer's first move. When upset, they might become moody, withdrawn (see Shell Mode article!), or express displeasure indirectly through sighs, hints, or focusing on unrelated practical issues. They might try to nurture their way back to harmony, hoping the issue dissolves. Outright anger can happen if pushed too far or feeling deeply threatened, often coming out defensively. They prioritize emotional safety, and direct conflict often feels unsafe. Understanding this helps partners learn to create a safe space for Cancer to express needs before they build into resentment or passive aggression. Gentle, reassuring invitations to talk work better than demands.

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