When Aries Fire Becomes a Dumpster Fire 🔥🗑️

Aries energy is amazing, but the shadow side can show up as red flags in relationships.

Watch Out For:

• Extreme Impulsivity: Making huge relationship decisions (or breaking up) on a whim without considering consequences.
• Selfishness Disguised as Independence: Using "needing space" to completely disregard partner's needs or feelings.
• Constant Need for Conflict/Drama: Picking fights just for the adrenaline rush or to feel passionate.
• Poor Anger Management: Explosive temper that feels unsafe or overly aggressive. Not just passionate, but scary.
• Inability to Finish Anything: Including relationship commitments or addressing problems seriously. Constant starting over.
• Dismissiveness of Partner's Pace: Refusing to slow down or compromise, making partner feel constantly rushed or inadequate.
• Competitive Undermining: Turning everything into a competition where they must win, even against their partner.

Note: Everyone has flaws. These become red flags when they're consistent patterns causing harm without acknowledgement or effort to change.

Check out Red Flags.